Monthly Archives: March 2013

Daylight Savings Time

I was packing my backpack this late afternoon, gearing up for a long night of thesis writing. As I walked in to my bedroom, the glint of the sunset caught my attention from the corner of my eye, piercing through the shades of my apartment window. I couldn’t help but compare its reminiscent resemblence upon those same sunsets I would watch as I’d head to swim practice in high school during those late spring time afternoons.

I sat, perched upon the edge of my bed, and could hardly believe how quickly college was coming to an end. I never thought I’d feel this sentimental towards the bonds of made – the love/hate relationships I’ve had the privilege of developing over the course of two and -what is now- almost 2/3 years. Only yesterday were we stalking each other on Facebook and sneaking alcohol through the halls of our residential halls.

Leaving high school, I could hardly believe what the next chapter of my life was going to be like. We would say that we were off to the “real world.” We couldn’t have been any more wrong. The last two years have been a dream – a whistful break from the realities of life. And its all coming to an end at an alarming rate.

I’ve found myself in this place before, fighting so urgently to hold on to what I’ve got now. But I couldn’t be more ready for the next chapter of my life. My father tells me that its in our blood, that motivation to keep moving forward and that disposition of impatience.

Three years ago this time, I found myself driving home from swim practice. I drove by my Junior high school and my elementary school. I drove by every place contributing to my development. Its a bit more intimidating this time around.

The Declaration of Principles

We, the members of Tau Kappa Epsilon Fraternity, hereby declaring our strict adherence and unswerving fidelity to what we believe to be the basic principles of true friendship, do ordain and adopt this our Declaration of Principles.

The object of this Declaration is to codify the settled convictions of this fraternity into abiding form to guide fraternal action and conduct for all time to come. And to the principles hereinafter enunciated, we individually and collectively pledge our unreserved allegiance.

Man is a social being. Our whole structure evidences the absolute interdependence of man. Reclusiveness is dwarfing to man’s best qualities. Intimate and frequent contact with our fellows is necessary to symmetrical development. As a consequence, organizations whose purpose is to promote these ends are to be fostered and encouraged.

We believe that at no other period in the life of a man is the time more opportune for the fostering of such qualities than during the years of his college career. Then mind and heart are in their most receptive condition, for it is the formative period of life.

We regard mental development as of vital importance, but of equal consequence is the acquisition of a knowledge of men and a proper conception of their relation to one another. This is not obtained from texts and lectures, but from actual and intimate intercourse with men. To promote these ends is the avowed and earnest purpose of this fraternity. Fully realizing the burdens of this duty, we enter upon its performance with the conscientious purpose of adequately meeting its demands.

We maintain that exclusiveness is the direct antithesis of a true fraternity. We condemn the un-American policies of some of the leading college fraternities of the country in their attitude of contempt to all who are without the bonds of fraternities, regardless of character, ability or personal merits. Such policies we seek to avoid, as they are destructive of the very ends of true fraternity.

We believe that a fraternity should be a brotherhood in conduct as well as in name. “Faith without works is dead.” Pledges of brotherhood not succeeded by observance in conduct are as “sounding brass and tinkling cymbal.” By the tenor of our daily action we should evidence our devotion to the principles we have solemnly obligated ourselves to observe.

The duties and obligations that subsist between the sons of the same mother should subsist between brothers in the sacred bond of this fraternity. The instinct to the observance of mutual duties that common blood supplies, must be furnished by the pledges of our ritual.

We believe that the essential elements of true brotherhood are love, charity, and esteem; love, that binds our hearts with the sturdy chords of fraternal affection; charity, that is impulsive to see virtues in a brother and slow to reprove his faults; esteem, that is respectful to the honest convictions of others and that refrains from treading upon that which is sacred to spirit and conscience; these are the triple obligations of every brother in the bond.

We believe in secretism in so far as it enables a fraternity to protect the confidence of the brotherhood. Secrecy that is promoted for selfish purposes or utilized to cloak fraternal wrong-doings we unsparingly condemn. We uphold this policy in so far as it is necessary to insure the dignity of our ritualism and the privacy of our internal affairs. As secrecy is employed to protect and perpetuate the sanctity of the family relation, so we enlist the advantage of secrecy to preserve inviolate the confidences and sanctities of the brotherhood.

Toward other fraternities we believe we should maintain an attitude of dignity and respect, recognizing their merits and studiously avoiding their evils. We believe our relation to them is, in a measure, competitive, and that we should endeavor to excel them in the fields of college activity.

We maintain that competition may become detrimental to any school. When healthy rivalry is followed by competition in which honorable methods are employed, it is a boon to the fraternity, and a benefit to the school, but when groveling and unprincipled means are employed, when school spirit and interest are subordinated to fraternal prejudice and selfishness, it becomes “a snare to the feet,” and a detriment to the fraternity and to the school. Competition in such form we condemn, and pledge every effort to avoid.

Finally, above all else, this fraternity stands for Men. We believe in their equality in those things which the Creator has decreed they should equally enjoy. We consider no man from the standpoint of those qualities and advantages he has not attained by personal effort. We stand for men whose manhood has withstood the test of trying conditions. We deem sterling character and staunch uprightness to be necessary qualifications to membership in this fraternity. All else, though desirable, is secondary to these. Tau Kappa Epsilon Declaration of Principles